The more you resist to love someone, the closer and more intimate you'll be with that person.
Thoughts create the words we speak, the feelings we feel and our actions. Actions are particularly powerful, because these are thoughts that have caused us to act.
Sometimes, we may not realize what our innermost thoughts are, but we can see what we have been thinking by looking at the actions we have taken...
Do you treat yourself the way you want people to treat you?